Tatlong buwan na nung nabili ko ang librong ito, with the same title, 40 pesos sa Book Sale. Nabasa ko na ang lahat maliban sa unang chapter, kung saan ipinaliwanag kung saan nga ba talaga tungkol ang librong yun. At eto nga at ipopost ko ang mga paunang salita. Aalalahanin ko ito lagi.

If I do not want what you want, please try not to tell me that my want is wrong.

Or if I believe other than you, at least pause before you correct my view.

Or if my emotion is less than yours , or more, given the same circumstances, try not to ask me to feel more strongly or weakly.

Or yet, if I act, or fail to act, in the manner of your design for action, let me be.

I do not, for the moment at least, ask you to understand me. That will come only when you are willing to give up changing me into a copy of you.

I may be  your spouse, your parent, your offspring, your friend, or your colleague.If you will allow me any of my own wants, or emotions, or beliefs, or actions, then you open yourself. So that some day these ways of mine might not seem so wrong, and might finally appear to you as right– for me. To put up with me is the first step to understanding me. Not that you embrace my ways as right for you, but that you are no longer irritated or disappointed with me for my seeming waywardness. And in understanding me you might come to prize my differences from you, and, far from seeking to change me, preserve and even nurture those differences.

Please Understand Me

Character and Temperament Types
David Keirsey & Marilyn Bates
Prometheus Nemesis Books © 1978